Being Nice

I hope you aren’t laughing about the title. If you are this article isn’t for you. This article is to keep being nice, especially when it is hard, and when it isn’t smart.

Okay, so, a lot of us are pretty nice but we do have a limit to our tolerance. The definition of nice is varied but overall it means pleasant. Pleasant like nice is not enough. You need to have more than being nice: you need to have structure and boundaries (limits).

You can set healthy limits on how much you think or know you can take. And when that limit is reached don’t play around take care of it.
If you don’t have a high tolerance, making limits may help you widen your tolerance scale.

Why should you place limits? Because stress, anger, and things of that nature can hurt you. Not only mentally but physically. They can cause health issues.

Some places to start putting limits is on how much rudeness, tardiness, and meanness you will take, and definitely how much you will take when someone seems to be taking advantage of you.

You can plan out what you will say to these people who push past your limits. When you are writing this down you can be very honest. And if it is over the top, since you are calm, mellow it out. This is so you don’t have to seem mean when you really are angry, stressed, or anything that’s not calm. Now you most likely will sound like someone who knows how to deal.